Thanks all, except you Dustin...

Seriously though, I'll try to have some more on Sat, hopefully mating images. I seem to have saved the missing pics to the wrong file, and haven't found yet.
Pretty amazing the resilience of these guys. I thought for sure a head wound would have been fatal. I wonder if the female injected any venom as well...
I was thinking death during the first couple days after the bite.
My 'rehab' consisted of an 80oz fabri kal/w poly lid and a little water (1/4" deep) in it. My strip light is sloped on top, and I just put the container on it whenever the light was on. The top of the light is about 80-85 degrees, and the water pooled on the low side so the spider could choose wet or dry. He stayed in the water for about a week in the typical huddled resting position with the legs close to the body, and then started stretching the wounded legs and palps. That was a great sign at the time, and he was back to 'normal' a few weeks later.
The water was changed only when needed as disturbing him could have caused the partially healed wounds to bleed and stressed the spider. And boy is it easy to stress a pokie!
When I grabbed the female, I just used the typical thumb and forefinger method Viper, one on each side of the head in the middle of the legs. Didn't really squeeze hard, but enough to get her to feel threatened and focus on me rather than the male, and not be able to free herself and bite me!
It really isn't good to pick t's up like that in general imo, especially nervous/defensive t's as mentioned, they don't like it, and it can damage the hairs on the carapace resulting in rubbed areas. On the other hand, some of the complacent type t's don't seem to mind it at all though......
Yeah, I wouldn't pick up a pokie like that unless I had to... their bites hurt! A little three inch mysore got me once, and man did it sting!